How to Tell Your Husband about Your Infidelity : Telling your husband that you cheated on him is difficult yet important. Unfortunately, sometimes we fall in love with someone but then realize that our partners are actually the best ones. If you cheated on him, don’t lie. Of course, you don’t want to break up with your partner, especially if you love him and have kids, but you have to tell him the truth. No matter how complicated your conversation will be, it’s better to tell the truth than spending your days and nights feeling guilty and overthinking your fault over and over again. Here’s how to tell your husband about your infidelity: