Believe me, your destiny is your own creation. It must not be construed as a curse on humankind. One version of interpreting is directly correlated to your own acts. Your own attitude, your own approach towards life and values decide your destiny. The cumulative factor precedent to actions creates the agony and ecstasy of life. We must look at the monotonous realities of life as they unfold. The pattern changes, for better or for worse. No circumstance lasts forever. If you do resistance to the change, it will only aggravate misery. Instead, you must try to live through the experience.
I am sure, if you wish to practise virtue, you need not be a saint.. Mere awareness of what is right and wrong would do you good. Kindly perform actions without expectations. Actions performed to achieve good bring joy and happiness.
No one is capable of absolute evil. Good always triumphs over evil. Many a time we come across people doing harm to society but they spend inconspicuously on charitable causes to get over the guilt. Sometime, mind over matter dictates the truth. Generally you accept unconditional thinking and filter the undesirable. You may therefore practise virtue and pursue virtuous deeds. One cannot escape destiny, we need to understand it as it presents itself.
Every moment in life poses its own opportunity to be experienced. What is important is not how you struggled but how you reconciled and won. The ability to continue in the circumstance is divine. In the pursuit of finding you own destiny, you could change its course by exercising control with better judgment. Common sense could help us chart our future course. By perpetually surrendering to the state of purity you can change your destiny. Destiny is amenable to thought and right action. We only need to subtly understand our limitations and practise humility.
The turmoil within is only momentary; as time passes what you have construed earlier will fall off like dry leaves. God created us with a purpose. We need to understand the values and gifts He has showered upon us. However, he does not believe in orchestrating our entire life.
Destiny is what we do to fight against vice and temptation. If the perception of destiny is misunderstood, and we resign ourselves to it, not paying heed to of how we can better our lives, thinking that it is totally a predestined issue – we are wrong. If we condemn ourselves to suffer and feel damned, the existence of whatever good has no meaning. It is not by reprimand alone that one learns the truth. One can overcome the impediments by devotion and prayer. If a conscious mind with clear intentions evaluates right and wrong, it can overcome.
Destiny is your choice. If you do honest application and focused action you can assure tangible achievements. It is the passion and commitment to the purpose that uplifts. We must uphold values of higher planes to overcome deficiencies and inadequacies. We need to constantly upgrade and resurrect thoughts and better ourselves, may be to transcend and live again in a superior world free from the cycle of birth and death, for which we need to be prepared.
Hence, be happy, destiny is your own creation. None else imposes upon you.