Happiness is an effort to make yourself or someone else happy. It is what happens to you when you feel happy. If you try to make someone else happy, you need to make some efforts especially to keep care of the attitudes of that one but with a little variation in your efforts when you are trying with your opposite section. To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. But with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all. How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being? You need to have some emotional attachment too with her to make her happy. Some time, a male may not need your emotional attachment so much.
You might be having enough happiness, you might have already undergone many trials to make you experienced and strong, you might have faced some sad time too. But do you need still some more efforts to make yourself happy for ever? Yes, it is required for every one.
Remember, if you can, when as a child you were in the womb of your respected mother, you might be thinking how soon you would see the outer world. A long waiting and you struggled to come out! You were so happy that you cried. Your mother and father and all those who were around and who heard about your great arrival were also happy, isn’t so?
After some time, when you grew up, you started to face the realities of life. Life is full of struggle for every one. The riches also face some of problems and the poor too. They have different sets but they have some problems. Amongst all problems, you need to be happy. If you take the problems as problems, they will become real problems. If you endeavor to solve them pleasingly, they will disappear soon as you attempt to solve them seriously with all the resources at your disposal.
Personally, I experience the greatest degree of pleasure in having contact with my work which equip me with happy feelings of intensity and that I cannot derive from any other realms. It is your attitude too which can make you happy. You know, a happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person who possesses a certain set of attitudes. It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about. Very frankly, true happy are those persons who dream happy dreams only and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.
You know it’s love when all you want is some person to be happy, even if you’re not part of the ensuing happiness If you want to be happy with someone, you need to love truly. True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you. You will need to love your beloved one in all circumstances. You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity together.
I tried many times to make someone happy but could not succeed because generally the people always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be. We will have to resolve that we are going to be happy in all circumstances. If you don’t fight with positivism, you may not be happy.
It is possible that if you are happy you are always good, but when you are good in financial and/or social terms, you may not be always happy in emotional terms. Just think how happy you would be if you got it back again everything you lost. If you really wish to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.
For being happy, you must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy. A person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.
This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy. If you want to be happy, please determine to be happy. In the process, you will locate out the reasons why you are not happy and you will improve to eliminate that reasons. Don’t wait around for other people to make happy for you. Any happiness you get you’ve got to make yourself.
Once, when I asked God for strength that I might achieve, I was made weak that I might learn humbly to obey. When I asked God for health that I might do greater things, I was given infirmity that I might do better things. Whenever I asked for riches that I might be happy, I was given poverty that I might be wise. Sometime I sought for power that I might have the praise of men, I was given weakness that I might feel the need of God. But when I asked for all things that I might enjoy life, I was given life that I might enjoy all things. Really, I got nothing that I asked for, but everything I hoped for. Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered. I am, among all men, most richly blessed and I am happy because my struggles taught me as such.
Basically, we mean happiness as comfort and luxury as the chief requirements of life, but all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about them. When we get, we feel pleasure for some time and afterwards, they become items of our routine life and again, we try to search out our happiness.
We may continue to smile and make you think we are happy,we may continue to laugh, so you don’t see us cry, We will show ourselves to let you feel us in style, and even if it kills us- we are going to smile to appear as happy – perhaps we may not be. We will have to develop true happiness by our own attitude.
The Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same. You know, secret of being miserable is to have the leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not. The cure is occupation. You must keep yourself occupied with some job always if you wish to be happy.
You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren’t happy in one place, chances are you won’t be happy anyplace. Happiness is a state of mind or feeling such as contentment, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy. A variety of philosophical, religious, psychological and biological approaches have been taken to defining happiness and identifying its sources.
Your happiness and your success have interlinked relationship. Success may mean achieving a particular level of social status, achievement of an objective/ goal. Or, it is the opposite of failure. Whenever you wish to be happy, you need to be successful and always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.
For sustaining your success, your happiness, you need to try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value. Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
All your growth and development will lead you to believe that if you really do the right thing, and if you play by the rules, and if you feel happy to work and you’ve got good enough, solid judgment and common sense, that you’re going to be able to do whatever you want to do with your life.
The secret of success is hidden in your consistency to your purpose. Since there are no gains without pains, you will have to try hard. If yesterday you had dared to struggle, today you will win. Life is a succession of moments. To live each one happily is to succeed. A successful person is one who can happily lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her. He takes all the opportunities happily since he knows that small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises. He knows that his own will shape the future. Whether he fails or succeeds shall be no man’s doing but his own. He is the force; He can clear any obstacle before him or he can be lost in the maze. It is his choice; his responsibility; win or loses; only he holds the key to his destiny. He will have to do whether he is happy or not. Since he is to do, he would like to be happy.
I may tell you the price of success. It is your happy dedication, hard work, and a devotion to the things you want to see happen. The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen. Really, it is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something happily and you will win one day, because it is on our failures that we base a new and different and better success. You will definitely learn that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. You will have to work hard but happily. The heights by great men reached and kept, were not attained by sudden flight, they, were toiling upward in the night, while their companions slept. You will have to fix up your targets and strict to them. I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure: which is: Try to please everybody.
If you want to be happy yourself first, you will have to work hard and please yourself with your success. Be Happy – Be successful.