Everyday you create an image of yourself, one that people pick up on and hold for years. They see you in a certain way, one that can be different from what you want or expect. When you meet or interact with someone they form an image of you, or they see you a certain way. That image may or may not be positive; it really depends on what kind of message you send out. To Accomplish Your Dreams, you must try to build up your image as positive one.
How do other people form your image or perception? It is really based on the energy you give off, which is formed by the thoughts, actions and beliefs that you carry internally. They are not reading your mind, they are just picking up on your energy and often they really do not know what they are picking up on, they just form a feeling. Think about it… you have an image or perception of various movie stars. You may think they seem like a certain kind of person, because they are giving off this energy about themselves that you are picking up on. You either win people over or you turn them away, often you do not even realize just how you are generating this perception image.
Be Your Best
First send out the right message so that you attract the right people and situations by simply being your best! How many times do you take on a project or get into something and really give it your best? Let us face it – most people do not always put their best foot forward unless they really have to. But if you forced yourself to perform at your best you would simply get the best in return and you would create an image of yourself that you’re always giving your best. By being at your best you attract and meet positive, supportive people who respect you and enjoy your company and give you the best they have to offer. By being your best you attract the best in every situation, you attract the best outcomes and you attract the right people.
Because when you are at your best you exude the right energy that draws the best people, situations and circumstances to help you achieve greater success in all areas of your life. This means that you do not get caught up in what other people think about you. Instead you focus on being the best possible person you can. Now, you simply would not be able to please all of the people all of the time. So, do not waste time and energy trying to please everybody. Focus on being your best and you will attract the best.
By simply being your best, by putting your best foot forward you send out the message that you are doing your best and that you expect nothing less than the best in return. Believe me, you are a unique human being – there’s no one else like you – no one!
You Are Unique…
Only you can be you and if you respect who you are and you believe in who you are then others will soon start to respect you and believe in you. You should never feel that you would not be able to do a particular job, if you had determined to do. This can happen only when you are at your best, when you truly believe in yourself and when you believe that you are unique and capable of achieving your goals. I know everybody wants to be liked especially by those you feel are important to you. But if you really want to win people over and if you really want to get along better with people then appreciate yourself for who you are.
How do you do this?
How do you be your best and exude the right energy to attract the right people? Focus on what you like about yourself. Think of all the positive qualities that you have and everyday compliment yourself for the positive qualities that you have. This process naturally pushes you to be your best. Then begin to believe in yourself. Focus on your past and current achievements and begin to believe that you can live the life you want. Believe that you can Accomplish Your Dreams and that you can win people over. Believe that you can succeed at anything that you do – and you will. It’s a simple process of getting the mind to focus on what you are, what you can do and on your best qualities.
Once you do that, your subconscious mind will begin to attract the people, situations and events that will support what you believe and that is when things really star to change. That is when people will see the best in you and then you will begin being the best that you can.
Attracting the Right People and Situations
The next step is to be the kind of person you want to be and the kind of person you want to attract into your life. If you want positive, good, loving, caring people and people who respect you then you need to display those same qualities. You will attract what you are. If you are angry, mean, cruel, unkind and disrespectful then those are the kind of people that you will attract.
People pick up on your energy if you exude positive, loving and caring energy you will attract people who have the same qualities. How do you begin to change your energy and begin to be the kind of person that you want to attract into your life?
Start with your thoughts.
Regularly have positive, confident, caring and respectful thoughts. Have the best possible thoughts about any situation and you will attract the best possible outcome. In the beginning this will not be easy – you will have to change the thoughts that you have. But as you change your thoughts you begin to send a new message to your subconscious mind. You then push your subconscious mind to attract the people and situations that will help you build your confidence, respect you, encourage you and be supportive. Start being the person you want to be. Start being the kind of person you want to attract into your life. Do not waste too much time and energy on people’s opinions – you do not have to be what people think of you. Be yourself – and believe in yourself.
Focus on being who you want to be and you will attract the people that will help you and enjoy being with you. Here is a little exercise that you can do: everyday make it a point to do something really, really well. Put your best effort into at least one task everyday. Then after a week expand to doing two things at your best. Keep expanding every week and before you know it you will be at your best all the time. And in the process you will attract the best all the time. At the same time you should make it a point to go the extra mile for someone everyday.
Focus on doing the right things.
Make sure you do your best at least one thing everyday then expand to two things everyday the following week and keep expanding each week. Begin to believe in yourself and you will begin to change your energy so that you attract the right people into your life.
By being your best and by going the extra mile for people you will begin to believe in yourself. You will get your create positive energy and get your subconscious mind working for you. Get started today.
Once again, I may ask you to remember – be yourself. Focus on your positive qualities. Push yourself to do your best everyday. Be the best person that you can. Go the extra mile. Believe in yourself – because you can do anything when you put your mind to it.
Be Happy -You would soon be able to Accomplish Your Dreams.